Tuesday, 31 October 2017

Does looking at past events help you change career?

 
“If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change” (Wayne Dyer)
An increased understanding of your response to past events, enables you to think more positively and develop greater self-confidence to act on the best career decisions for you.

When I first meet an individual for career coaching, I am often greeted with a look of surprise when I ask them to rate everything they have done from school to date by their motivation.  I can understand their surprise, for they have come to me for help with their future career path and not their past.  However, it is an invaluable exercise in identifying attitudes and beliefs which can hinder or help the career change process.

Our attitudes and beliefs are shaped through our response to experiences and events and dictate how we feel and behave.  When our response to an experience forms a negative belief, we can feel miserable and our motivation for exploring new and exciting career possibilities is low.  In contrast, when we have positive thoughts, our motivation is high, and we become far more willing to try new things.

In reviewing our motivation from past experiences, we can start to identify our positive and negative beliefs, and this can help us make future decisions.  I will show you how through two examples:

1: Negative beliefs

I work with many solicitors who initially give their motivation at work a low rating.  One common reason for this is the frequency of having to deal with telephone calls from unhappy clients.  Dealing with these calls can make individuals feel anxious about speaking on the phone as they begin to mistakenly believe they are not good at dealing with people.  Consequentially, they decide that their next career move must avoid this.  When thinking of a career change, it is important to deal with negative beliefs such as this and learn to change them to avoid closing the door on possible opportunities too early in the career change process 

2: Positive Attitudes

In reviewing past events, we can also identify experiences that made us respond with a positive attitude and feel really motivated.  Perhaps you did some volunteering for a charity which made you feel good about yourself and wanting to do more.   In reviewing these positive experiences, it is important to look at what specifically you were doing during the experience that made you respond in this way - these activities and skills will be relevant when deciding on a best fit career.

Evaluating past events helps you to understand your thoughts and beliefs.  How you think will affect how you feel about your next career choice and the subsequent action you take.  Positive thoughts and beliefs will enable you to make the best decision regarding your career.

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